Sex, Moral Values and Our Youth 

Mary is in love. He's sweet, fun to be around and so cute! One Saturday afternoon, while both parents were away they relaxed in Mary's bedroom watching TV. Soon, the television was forgotten as they found themselves locked in a passionate embrace. It seemed only natural to express their love in a physical way.

The parents returned home discovering them both in bed. After the boyfriend left, the heated argument began. "What's the big deal?" asked Mary. "I really love him! Everyone else is doing it!" The parents honestly don't know how to argue with her except to say that it is wrong.

What would you say? How do we help our youth grow up with morals and values?

John and a friend discovered it on Dad's computer Internet connection: pornography. The perversions that once were available only in seedy bookstores could now be accessed for free over the World Wide Web. Every day after school, the two boys would rush home and check out hundreds of web sites displaying graphic pictures of everything imaginable pertaining to the act of sex. One click of the printer and full color pictures were instantly available to share with friends.

John's dad turned on the computer one night to check information he had downloaded from the Internet earlier in the week. He noticed a lot of new file names in the directory. Several of them had the word sex within the name. Curious he opened one of the files and gasped at the picture that suddenly appeared on screen.

If you were Dad, what would you say to John? How do we help our youth grow up with morals and values?

If you believe this is a problem only for our generation… think again. Moses gave this warning:

"Hear, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. And you must commit yourselves whole-heartedly to these commands I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children." (Deuteronomy 6:4-7)

In Josh McDowell's book, Right from Wrong, there was a survey taken of Christian youth… and I emphasize, Christian youth. There were some surprising results.

  • 2 of 3 admitted lying to a parent or teacher

  • 1 of 2 admitted sexual contact

  • 1 of 3 cheated on an exam

  • 1 of 5 tried to physically harm someone

  • 1 of 10 used illegal drugs

Many of these Christian youth admitted to feelings of confusion and were looking for real answers. Many questioned the authority of the Bible and the relevance of the church in today's world. In other words, our generation is not teaching our children about the importance of understanding the values and morals of following God. But it's not too late to start!

A couple was looking to buy an old fix-me-up house at a great price. But a repair estimate showed that no matter what was fixed on the surface the house would soon collapse because of cracks in the foundation. 

The foundation of society is our faith in God. If we do not consistently and lovingly pass on that faith to our children… society is in danger of collapse.

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